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Women? Stuff for Big Hunters I – Tantric Approach

By Shiva Tantrika

Well this subject is not the kind of getting across scientific magazines; it may be even a little odd to give advice of how to get women into one´s life. But if you´re reading this article, you are surely looking for something on the area. At least what comes out of it.

This subject will be divided into several parts and you are reading Part I.

Big hunters! If we think a little closer, dig a little dipper, we will see that, basically all sort of things that goes around the human realm, stands out what we call relationship. And right there, lies the fulcrum of all, as the power of attraction and of love, women.

Quite recently upon finishing a massage, there came one of my clients to ask for any advice I could give him as to get women around him, since he felt himself not quite attractive, he felt lonely and noticeably wanted his life to change.

As he had tried many approaches he was deeply interested on what a tantric yogi could give him.

Needless to say that´s quite a difficult matter since I consider the yogini (stands for women) as the best advisors… but, at that moment, there was not any to go around and upon his insistence I decided to give him some words on that.

Surely what I say cannot be taken as an universal truth but it does work in major western societies where common values can be exploited, and maybe a different taste can be applied on your approach towards women.

Basically the first thing that westerners should change is their view of what “God” represents taking into account that the reader likes religious stuff, is Bible oriented, etc.

Being heirs of a culture where man stands upright as the leader of society, a shift of mind conceptions is required or entitled for review.

And for that I mean that your thinking of God as being “He” should change into “She”.

Does that sound strange? Not really, if you scavenge for the meanings of names that are found in the Bible.

For instance El-Shaddai also represents a woman that feeds the baby with her breast… You did not know it? Surely, a society of men would never tell you that. See some references as to Jesus… remember for example that “Star” is feminine in many languages- and surely to where the message arrives is an important factor for good understanding.

I will let you search for other words, other meanings, parables that give grounds for you to see “God” as a “Goddess”, either from historical events, tales and so on and so forth and take it from me, there is nothing wrong with that. You will not be an lesser man for that and God will not be an inferior God either.

Now for God´s Sake or Goddess ‘ Sake, I am not talking about sex here. I am talking about essence, nature, inner building, and structure.

So first step is to recognize that “She” is also a representative of God himself.

Why is that important? There are many reasons why but I will stick to some for your convenience.

First, this view has power because it changes you, placing the feminine into perspective in your life. There is nothing worse than to have a distorted perspective about women in you.

It starts to cease the duality that resides in you. You must be integrative not self-apart. There must be not opposition but rather a fabric of continuity in between you and her (or them).

You leave behind the old and static view and switched into a dynamic view of the world. The reason is because when center the feminine divine into your life, life becomes dynamic! And everything changes.

Men that have this conception are different because they are hard to be found.

They have an inner glow because their regard and look towards women are distinct.

On that account, they are not at the football at this moment, or drinking beer because they have better things to do. They have to contemplate the new nature they discovered. Stop, delete all Monday morning quarterbacking in front of a girl, a woman, and well, an old lady!

As time goes by what was a change in conception becomes an inner and real experience in life. Indeed, it is a reality that when you experience, you are born again and believe me, you will not pass unnoticed, mainly by women.

The Universe is so magical at this point, that it will start to provide you with lots of opportunities and you will recognize each of them. You will be like a flower to the bees…

The very moment that they learn that you have a special, inner temple in which you make reverence to the women´s essence, that you regard them as precious gems, as masterpieces of life (and that must be genuine, no fakes here), they will want to enter your temple.

Now big hunters, get down to work, review your concepts towards them, start to build the temple and let the Goddess enter. A line will be formed at your door.

Next time, I will continue with other things that will work along these lines.

Tantrika

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What great thought provoking content, Shiva.
Very well written and an inspirational read.
Thank you for sharing.
Frederick

Thank you.
There is more to come!

I agree this is very thought provoking and enlightening.
I know that some of the "gods of old" were female, and Innana for one played a large role in the origins of mankind in Sumeria, the Annunaki (of which she was one) and their stories are detailed in Sumerian writings, and also highly summarised in the early chapters of the book of Genesis.
TRhere are so many things that we do not fully understand, sometimes it's good to be enlightened.

In some way, we did become unaware and apart of the natural processes around the old stories... In fact, the female cult had a strong impact upon civilizations of old. Normally these civilizations were invaded, destroyed by patriarchal ones, warriors that wanted to have more land, more food, more slaves.
Even in the Bible, if we are to make a deep analysis, let´s say the names of God, El-Shaddai, expresses a Mother that feeds the baby with the breast.
Yes that may sound good news to lots of folks - and I say, this is no invention. I will be addressing these areas in my next Intel.

Wow! What an amazing intel. You have captured the essence better than anyone. It's the truth. What women are drawn to is a sense of inner strength and peace with the universe, which as you say is feminine in essence. Bravo!

Although I am not a Vedanta, I will use something here from them: There´s a deeper reality besides that one that we take as real... we may be looking at Maya, mostly of the time.
The tantric approach, comes into play when we want to broaden our awareness. The more we get, the more balanced becomes the roll of men-women. Man has to go back in time, in sensorial ways and women should not envy man´s present status. Mostly of this status is far away from balance.

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